There is an old joke in the Zen tradition: "You should sit in meditation for twenty minutes a day — unless you're too busy. Then you should sit for an hour." Once you've finished smiling, it's worth asking: why would busier mean more in need of a pause?
The real cost of "too busy" is usually not time but presence: always doing, never quite there. Eating while answering messages, with the kids while thinking about work, on holiday while planning next week. Day after day, the time passes — but it can feel like nobody actually lived it. What mindfulness gives back is not an extra hour; it's the moments you already own but weren't present for.
None of the following requires adding anything to your calendar:
Brushing your teeth — two minutes. Feel the brush, taste the toothpaste. No thinking; just brushing.
Waiting for the lift — from pressing the button to stepping in: notice three breaths.
The first sip of tea or coffee — just this one sip a day, taken seriously (method in Episode 7).
The walk to the station — phone away; feel your feet meeting the ground.
Waiting to cross the road — the red light isn't blocking you; it's giving you a breather.
Pick one. Don't be greedy and take all five — one, for one week. These are called "informal practices", and in the eight-week course they matter just as much as sitting meditation.
Then you may not be in the "too busy to practise" group — you may be in the "so busy you need it most" group. Interestingly, many course participants say the same thing: once they started practising, time seemed to grow. Time didn't actually grow, of course — they simply became clearer, less scattered, less prone to doubling back and redoing things. Focus is the most time-saving skill there is.
・What "too busy" costs you isn't time — it's presence: doing, but not being there.
・Informal practice takes zero extra time: brushing teeth, waiting for the lift, the first sip, the walk.
・Choose one and keep it for a week — one minute still counts as practice.
How mindfulness took root in Hong Kong — from universities to schools, a city learning to pause.
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