THE PAUSE JOURNAL · EPISODE 8 · MYTHS

"I'm too busy to meditate"

About a 4-minute read · Written for everyone who says they have no time

There is an old joke in the Zen tradition: "You should sit in meditation for twenty minutes a day — unless you're too busy. Then you should sit for an hour." Once you've finished smiling, it's worth asking: why would busier mean more in need of a pause?

Busy doesn't mean no time — it means no "you"

The real cost of "too busy" is usually not time but presence: always doing, never quite there. Eating while answering messages, with the kids while thinking about work, on holiday while planning next week. Day after day, the time passes — but it can feel like nobody actually lived it. What mindfulness gives back is not an extra hour; it's the moments you already own but weren't present for.

"Mindfulness doesn't add another item to your schedule.
It changes how you do the things already on it."

Practices that take zero extra time

None of the following requires adding anything to your calendar:

Brushing your teeth — two minutes. Feel the brush, taste the toothpaste. No thinking; just brushing.
Waiting for the lift — from pressing the button to stepping in: notice three breaths.
The first sip of tea or coffee — just this one sip a day, taken seriously (method in Episode 7).
The walk to the station — phone away; feel your feet meeting the ground.
Waiting to cross the road — the red light isn't blocking you; it's giving you a breather.

Brushing teeth Waiting for the lift First sip of tea Walk to the station Crossing the road Morning Night
Your day already contains these pause points — not one extra second required.

Pick one. Don't be greedy and take all five — one, for one week. These are called "informal practices", and in the eight-week course they matter just as much as sitting meditation.

And if you truly don't have even one minute

Then you may not be in the "too busy to practise" group — you may be in the "so busy you need it most" group. Interestingly, many course participants say the same thing: once they started practising, time seemed to grow. Time didn't actually grow, of course — they simply became clearer, less scattered, less prone to doubling back and redoing things. Focus is the most time-saving skill there is.

Key points from this episode

・What "too busy" costs you isn't time — it's presence: doing, but not being there.

・Informal practice takes zero extra time: brushing teeth, waiting for the lift, the first sip, the walk.

・Choose one and keep it for a week — one minute still counts as practice.

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Episode 9: Hong Kong and mindfulness

How mindfulness took root in Hong Kong — from universities to schools, a city learning to pause.

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